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I appreciate where I come from and strive to learn more and more about my culture every day.
I am only saying that from personal experience, an upbringing that has taught me to repress myself has only resulted in me being secretive, rebellious, and undeniably confused.
I have told them I will tell them the day before if I were ever to get married so it wouldn't give them time to judge my spouse. If you want to hide, just don't tell them about it. I hid my boyfriend for a couple of years and then it suddenly got out that I was in a relationship with someone. I just wanted to have some harmony while living my life so much so that I 'kept up' the image that my parents had of me in front of everyone else while secretly doing things I wanted to do.
When the truth got out, it really revealed a really ugly and manipulative side of my mom.
I haven't killed anyone, done illegal drugs, or got involved in crime or anything like that. But unfortunately, I didn't have the chance to go away for studies at the time.
I just don't talk to my parents about my relationships.I eventually just jumped ship all the way and 'betrayed' them.