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How social power affects interpersonal dynamics, and 2.
So take heart, and learn to take it in stride – it’s not just you! Try using it as a way to build rapport with a partner and see what they’re like, but know that it often doesn’t reflect genuine romantic interest.
This means that whether you sit or rotate at a speed dating event actually matters: rotators, who are forced to constantly approach targets, feel more self-confident and end up experiencing more romantic desire toward partners and feeling more sparks with them, compared to sitters. In our culture, men, who are typically thought of as being less selective with romantic partners than women, are also supposed to approach women.
Frequently approaching women may make men more attracted to more women, which makes them appear unselective.
When me and my friend got some free Barcelona Speed dating tickets from our friends at Date Club last Saturday, we started a heated discussion if we should go or not and ended up saying yes but we seemed to be both excited and ashamed at the same time.
Of course I never thought I’d end up speed dating in Barcelona, but hey, you have to give everything a try if you want to have a Barcelona date, right?
Then, a bell rings and “men” need to stand up and move to their right to start a new conversation and the whole process is repeated again.