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And while of course the topic of race should be an ongoing conversation with your significant other, things would go a lot smoother if men — — were able to identify and prevent racial tension from the very beginning.
To be blunt: White guys, you often approach black women in a harmful way.
When you compliment a black woman in this way, you are implying that we are exceptions to the rule — the rule being that that black women are not attractive, intelligent, or posses any other positive attributes.
And when these stereotypes are internalized and then manifested in society, it could have severe consequences.
Once, I was at a bar with friends when two white men approached me.
One was a guy who was interested in talking to me, and the other was acting as his wingman.
We ended up hitting it off, but it wasn’t until our first date that I realized I had underestimated the wingman’s abilities.The wingman walked up to me as his friend stood beside him and screamed over the music, “You’re perfect!