Dating deal breakers for guys


16-Jul-2020 10:10

That first study generated a list of 49 possible deal-breakers.

In a second study, a separate sample of 295 students rated the extent to which they felt that each of those 49 traits was a deal-breaker for them.

So in a third study, the researchers surveyed a nationally representative sample of 2,744 single American adults.

These participants were given a list of 17 traits and were asked to check off the ones they felt were deal-breakers (as many as they wanted).

Most of the students didn’t name that many—an average of just under five deal-breakers for long-term relationships, and three for short-term relationships.

In general, women were more likely than men to identify these traits as deal-breakers. They tended to focus primarily on health (STDs, bad smells); dating behaviors (dating multiple partners, already in a relationship); and negative personality traits (untrustworthy, abusive, uncaring).

Of course, small samples of college students don’t represent most singles.

“When you’re with that person at the beginning and something strikes you as odd or bizarre, and it sticks with you, it makes you uncomfortable but you can’t really wrap meaning around it,” that’s your red flag, says Bethany Marshall, Ph D, Psy D, author of Deal Breakers: When to Work On a Relationship and When to Walk Away.

“Early in a relationship, it’s that one thing that’s right in front of you that may be a sign of something deeper.” Everyone can have a bad day, so don’t rush to judgment, Marshall says.It could be a sign of trouble if your partner: Bottom line: Trust your judgment.



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