Dating a single mom with an infant
If I were to date, it would be genuinely and purely to find companionship and love.I hope that at the end of the day, people will stop to assess the individual as a person and a parent and not fall into the trap of thinking we are all money hungry cheating whores that want a replacement dad.Whenever there's an issue I'm almost always her 1st or 2nd phone call.With that being said, her mother knew how close we were and much her daughter loved me so as pissed as she was at me for years, she never stopped her daughter from seeing me.You started to feel like the kid's dad, but suddenly they are just GONE from your life.(And, obviously, you don't get "visitation" with the kid, once it is over.)I still see/talk to my stepdaughter 7yrs after leaving her mother.Put in the effort into making it special every time. Our relationship will not flow like other peoples’ relationships.Effort = Planning in advance, which means I feel like you respect my time. Sharing hobbies and traveling together are important aspects in evolving relationships.
It must be nice to share these experiences with the one other person who contributed in making your child. Even if I have a village of wonderful people to help me, I am the only person that can be the I invest everything in my child and, at the end of the day, I’ve run out of gas. I have to get a babysitter and schedule how long I can be out and when I need to return. But do you know how happy I am when I get that alone time with you? To me, it’s like a romantic getaway, a mini-vacation.So true, but if you and the kid really bond the breakup and loss is 10 times worse for the kid.