So, how do you go about cultivating your intuition?
Learn how to pay attention to your true, inner voice.
And while you’re not fan girl-ing out over the dude, you figure you’ll get there eventually—so you keep going out with him.
Don’t avoid answering questions, but also don’t say everything at once.
For example, if you had been married before and you ended up in court to settle things, you don’t need to give all the details.
But a couple of months later, you still just can’t get psyched about the guy for whatever reason. It's not that you're leading him on, per se, but you're not totally into him. Licensed marriage and family therapist David Klow, owner of Skylight Counseling Center in Chicago, says it happens all the time.
“Ambivalence is very normal in romantic relationships,” he says.If your instincts are normally reliable when it comes to understanding people, you will definitely want to trust them while you are dating.